A year has now passed since our great loss 22/11/08 will be forever etched on all of our hearts, we got together 22/11/09 to remember and celebrate the life of our dearly missed Phyllis. It was hard not to feel sorrow at our loss but we all endeavoured to stay possitve, nothing can replace my wonderful wife, friend and lover but I have strength in the knowledge that I have great support from friends and family.As christmas approaches once more I feel the great sadness and emptiness of this season which once we both loved so much, however I feel that I must go forward and try to lighten this darkness that creeps upon me, I know that Phyllis is with me in spirit at these times as she is in my thoughts always. Our love for each other endures.