Christmas 209 was very sad for all of us worse than 2008 probably because last year we were in such shock, whereas we had time to reflect this time round. Well it is now March 2010 and still the pain persists. However I am arranging 2 60th birthday parties for myself as Phyllis had started to plan before she sadly passed away, as I have never had a party before. I will be thinking of her and missing her but I think it is a possitive thing to do. I will be in Scotland on my Birthday with the family (1st October) and 8th October we are having a do in Woolston for all my friends and colleagues. I am sure that Phyllis would approve. Still love you loads n loads.